The Amateur Marriage

Unabridged
Author: Anne Tyler
Narrator: Blair Brown
Genres: Fiction
Publisher: Random House (Audio)
Date: January 2004
Length: 11 hours
Ratings:
Formats:
  • CD

Overview

From the inimitable Anne Tyler, a rich and compelling novel about a mismatched marriage—and its consequences, spanning three generations.

They seemed like the perfect couple—young, good-looking, made for each other. The moment Pauline, a stranger to the Polish Eastern Avenue neighborhood of Baltimore (though she lived only twenty minutes away), walked into his mother’s grocery store, Michael was smitten. And in the heat of World War II fervor, they are propelled into a hasty wedding. But they never should have married.

Pauline, impulsive, impractical, tumbles hit-or-miss through life; Michael, plodding, cautious, judgmental, proceeds deliberately. While other young marrieds, equally ignorant at the start, seemed to grow more seasoned, Pauline and Michael remain amateurs. In time their foolish quarrels take their toll. Even when they find themselves, almost thirty years later, loving, instant parents to a little grandson named Pagan, whom they rescue from Haight-Ashbury, they still cannot bridge their deep-rooted differences. Flighty Pauline clings to the notion that the rifts can always be patched. To the unyielding Michael, they become unbearable.

From the sound of the cash register in the old grocery to the counterculture jargon of the sixties, from the miniskirts to the multilayered apparel of later years, Anne Tyler captures the evocative nuances of everyday life during these decades with such telling precision that every page brings smiles of recognition. Throughout, as each of the competing voices bears witness, we are drawn ever more fully into the complex entanglements of family life in this wise, embracing, and deeply perceptive novel.

Reviews (8)

not a fan

Written by Lindsay Bledsoe on May 29th, 2008

  • Book Rating: 2/5

I REALLY really did not like this book. I didn't even make it through the 3rd cd, before I put it back in the mail. Extremely boring, unintresting plot/characters and the reader worked my nerves. Maybe this would be better read than listened to, I'm not sure...but for my commute it made me want to throw it out the window, more than it entertained me. I don't really reccomend this one

Didn't enjoy at all

Written by ceectee on March 15th, 2008

  • Book Rating: 1/5

Sadly, I did not enjoy this book. I did not find any of the characters likable. Incidents were introduced that never went anywhere,like Pauline and the male neighbor. What was the point? That could have been left out. The oldest daughter? She could have stayed gone. She raised her husbands children, left her child with the parents she hated and then came back to criticize how her parents tried to raise her. A family trip to the zoo filled her with angst, give me a break! No one seemed to connect. Pauline didn't even "like" the friends she use to meet with. I didn't enjoy it at all.

Repetitive at times

Written by Anonymous on February 7th, 2008

  • Book Rating: 3/5

Overall, I enjoyed the story but multiple times the author was repetitive on topics the couple encountered. And, after 60+ years being covered in the book, it just seemed that the repetitions were no longer necessary. I eventually grew tired of hearing about what aggravated the characters over and over again.

Real people

Written by Anonymous from Los Angeles, CA on September 23rd, 2006

  • Book Rating: 5/5

Anne Tyler does a great job of developing the characters in this book. They became real--at times irritating, at times endearing. She is able to capture the unspoken thoughts behind people's behavior. I thoroughly enjoyed it.

Amateur Marriage

Written by Angela Jones from Chalmette, LA on June 10th, 2005

  • Book Rating: 5/5

This book is filled with everyday occurances in life and marriage. The Anton's could be any one's family. The book is filled with, happiness, sadness, anger, grief, and loss. It is a generation of men are from mars women are from venus. Really easy, nice listen.

Amateur Marriag

Written by Anonymous on May 31st, 2005

  • Book Rating: 4/5

It was simplistic but touching. Human relationships are complex and intertwined. Leaves one thinking.

Amateur Marriage

Written by Shearl Drake on May 30th, 2005

  • Book Rating: 1/5

This one was a bore. It was not interesting at all.

Sad, but not in a good way.

Written by Anonymous on March 21st, 2005

  • Book Rating: 1/5

This story was so long and drawn out and very sad. I felt really depressed by the end.