Bringing Up Boys
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I had some aha moments listening to this book. I have been trying to raise my son to be kind to his sisters and I did not understand why he seems to actually enjoy antagonizing them. To make things worse, he's really good at it!!! I loved this book.
What a mistake this book was. "Feminist beliefs that boys and girls should be raised in a similar fashion can confuse boys and make them homosexuals". -Oh man. I agree that boys and girls have different needs but implying that your son can 'catch the gay from you' because you don't have 'kick fights' (as the author and his father did) is such crap. I really wish this book had some good advice about raising boys. --It doesn't. And it also sets christians back about 20 years.
I got this book because I have a son and wanted practical specific advice for how to raise him to be a strong, confident, and thoughtful person in today's world. There were probably only 3 or 4 snippets of rational advice in the entire audio book. The rest of the book was full of the evils of the homosexual agenda, the evils of the Boyscouts (while later recommending it as a good place to put your sons-contradictory!), and the evils of the feminists from the 60s through today. I consider myself a strong woman - but mostly just a strong person. I was looking for information on how to raise my son to be a strong person too. This was not the book I was hoping it would be. I only kept listening to it because I couldn't believe how rabidly he hated various parts of our society. I just couldn't look away. If you're a conservative Christian and you agree that the above groups are evil, this is the book for you. If not, look elsewhere!
Nice book, reader boring at times, but a must if you have boys!
Unless you're a neo-con freak you must NOT waste precious seconds listening to this book. If you are, then you already believe everything this guy's saying, so why waste your time listening?
As the father of a two year old which before I know it will be twenty, I thought this book was insightful and on target. I am both encouraged and frightened at the responsibility of raising up a child in this current age. This book has given me a lot of helpful information and instruction. I am looking forward to the second half.
I thought that Dr Dobson brushed on the fundamentals of raising boys in a society that is continually drifting toward a selfish and unhealthy bent. He stressed the value of a parenting team comprised of a loving mother and father, yet tried to be sympathetic to those that are not forntunate enough to be in that situation.
For those fathers looking to better understand their boys this book is great. Dr. Dobson helps you to better understand your role as a father and how your sons look to you for leadership. It is true, he comes at it with a conservative Christian background, however, he is spot on. He is most definitely not a Jesus freak, nor does he condemn SpongBob. He simply explains what is lacking in our society as well as in our own families, and how that is hurting our sons' development. Liberal or conservative, Christian or Jew, this book explains the importance of parenting and standing up for what is morally right, regardless of how anyone tries to paint it.
This book contained good information, but was repetitive in a number of parts. Would recommend if the listener is conservative-leaning and interested in the topic.
I have two sons, ages 11 and 9. The beginning set me back a little because the author is a real christian and proud of it. But he sure knows a lot about raising boys. His conclusions and recommendations are drawn from his years as a teacher and school counselor and from scientific research. I wish I had come across this when my kids were born. It has some value for parents of girls, but it is a 'must read' for parents of boys.